2016 遊首爾/釜山專業blogger沒有告訴你的 - 必掃的並非美妝而必到並非明洞!

繼幾年前去過首爾一次後，我在2016年9月再度遊首爾加釜山。既然是第二次自然是信心滿滿，可是還是中了專業blogger 們的伏。他們在乘車換錢方面資訊都很準確，但買和吃的真是唯有說台灣人和香港人的口味差太遠吧？

這是我綜合今次行程所得教訓，希望可以幫到大家：

1. 到釜山不必吃海鮮

聽了blogger 們的唆擺，去吃那個皇帝潛水艇。是很大很大盤的海鮮雜錦沒錯，放上Instagram 呃like 一流，僅此而已。
長這個樣子，很難想像味道和賣相落差蠻遠...

我上次去首爾已經發現以韓國一個海岸線蠻長的國家，他們出奇地不懂得烹調海鮮。他們只會全都放到水裏烚。不像香港有豉椒炒外國也有芝士蒜蓉焗新加坡有胡椒蟹，各有特色不遑多讓。烚令原本新鮮的海鮮變得肉質又硬又淡，實在浪費。除了皇帝潛水艇我還到過札嘎其市場和首爾忘了名字的漁市場，下場也是一樣: 後悔莫及。跟幾個朋友講起，發現大家都有同感，不明白為何blogger老是推吃海鮮。

2. 吃烤肉可以到馬場站

千萬千萬不要到姜虎東吃烤肉，服務超差而且完全沒有味道。我還聽到服務員跟我們後面一枱香港人說餐牌上的每100g 肉例如2萬won是不能只點100g,是每項起碼要點200g。那不是黑店是甚麼？雖然便宜是便宜但每人也要200元港元，我覺得香港任何一間韓燒都比他好，就此下決心我不會再信blogger 一句說話！

你看右下角那一盤令人很不開胃的生肉... 我心目中的韓牛不是這樣的啊!

新假期和我一位友人都推介到馬場肉類市場吃烤肉。馬場站並不是太方便，出了地鐵還要找上好一陣子才找到肉類市場，再迷路了一段時間才找到市場內多餐廳的一邊。最後我們總算在那兒吃上好味的牛肉。一個夠兩個人吃的心滿意足的拼盤是80000won,即約每人300港元。我不會說是must try但如果到韓國很想吃烤肉也絕不能到姜虎東ok?

賣相是否吸引得多?

3. 購物不要到明洞/東大門/南大門，去三清洞，梨大和新村

明洞是一處三步一innisfree, 轉角一natural republic 的地方，當地人已經不會再踏足這個被遊客踩爛的小區了。東大門和南大門除非你是做批發的，否則可以略過首爾版旺中和圓洲街。

當地人愛逛愛放工放學hang out的是新村。那兒有極多不同的餐廳和商店，沒有明洞那麼多重複的連鎖店，多一點variety。在新村我真正感受到首爾的年青活力氣息。

有街頭表演者，氣氛很好

關於新村因為它在弘大和梨大中間，我兩次都想由弘大或梨大徒步走去，但兩次都完全迷路了。今次是完全在誤打誤撞中由梨大找尋地鐵站的途上走著走著找到了新村，你叫我再走一次那條路我也沒有信心。所以閣下如非內置指南針那種人不要做以為走著走著便到的蠢事，信我，我試了兩次都失敗。

4. 東大門新景點DDP - Dongdaemun Design Plaza

它是一個很新穎的建築，裏面有設計廊賣新穎的設計商品。最漂亮是它的led 燈白色玫瑰花海，不知道是否常設展覽，晚上很美很美。

5. 到韓國不要買美妝了，瘋狂掃襪子吧！

我有用很多韓國品牌的美妝，不過近年香港的水貨競爭劇烈，價錢比在韓國duty free 少量購買還要便宜，還省下搬行李的煩惱，今次我到首爾格價一再印證我的理論: 例如MEDIHEAL與Line Friends聯名出品的面膜10塊裝，在韓國賣200港元一盒，在尖沙咀我略為逛一下便看見75元的低價!!超慶幸我沒有在韓國買﹗所以大家就算要買，也要做足功課，了解水貨價和香港該品牌的行貨價。

現在買韓美妝品有多個途徑，由平至貴排序是:

1. 香港水貨
2. 韓國網上免稅店，首爾機場取貨
3. 韓國免稅店
4. 韓國美妝品牌街舖

不要問我為甚麼香港的水貨會比在韓國買平，他們是批發的自有他們的貨源OK? 怕買到假貨的去連鎖大牌子莎莎/卓悅/Wish!等不會死。只是如果香港沒有該產品的水貨你才考慮到韓國買。如果你是韓購達人的話，你會到韓國網上免稅店買再到機場取貨。我也是今次去韓國做資料搜集時才知道有網上免稅店這種產物，真的大開眼界。因為它有很多推廣，玩一些線上遊戲甚麼的可以購物時有現金折扣，所以是非批發界最抵的買韓妝方式。不過你如非大量購買，到實體免稅店也差不過幾%，看你肯不肯花時間在網上免稅店消磨了。最後，只有當街舖做甚麼買1送1的優惠時你才考慮在街舖買，留意那些優惠是每間舖不同的，是超值的就別猶豫了﹗

不過韓國襪因為款式太多，水貨客很難負擔存貨多所造成的成本，所以這些又漂亮又好穿的韓國襪子在香港水貨店賣20元，在首爾只賣8元有找！多款得不得了！它們真的比uniqlo 或baleno 的更好穿，不易起毛粒，船襪又不會脫踭，我買得失心瘋了！還有那麼多made in Korea 的絲襪，只是15元一對，有美腿功能的也只是60元一對，今次我第一次買試試再報道。襪子店可以大量在三清洞和梨大找到，2016年公價1000won 一對，比這價錢貴的不要買。

左下角是我的襪子戰利品

祝大家玩得開開心心, 唔好俾人呃啦! HAHA!

地鐵裏的討厭行為 - 新版

有好多post /YouTube 講地鐵裏討人厭的行為，有點欠缺新意。不讓坐等等講到口臭，我要講一些新穎一點的。

昨天在地鐵裏有一排椅有一個空位，有一位大陸女遊客帶著兩個小女孩上車。她叫她們兩姊妹一同坐到那一個空位上。其實這不出奇。出奇在當女孩碰到隔離青年時她又責備女孩不要亂動，到青年放棄掙扎起身時她又不停給青年道歉，最後還嘮叨多女孩幾句。那不是超級無敵虛偽還是宇宙級不能預視自己行為的後果？兩個小女孩坐一個位有甚麼可能不妨礙到旁邊的人？你存心要爭的位還道甚麼歉？

還有很多人，明明車廂有很多空間，為什麼你要站到我旁邊還輕輕碰到我手臂？你專注玩iPhone 不代表可以碰到我啊！我知道每個人感自然的身體距離不同，但總不成有些ABC女孩整個美背倚到我背上吧！大家都是女生也不是這樣吧⋯⋯

最後令我氣結的是很多人乘扶手電梯到達平地踏出後，有一種終於到達目的地的豁然開朗，釘在地上到處張望，短則半秒長則三秒。大哥，你不是剛攀上喜馬拉亞山山頂，你後面有很多人以一秒兩呎的速度擁上來。我沒有興趣像喪屍片般和你玩層層疊。還有，在扶手電梯時大家還乖乖地靠左或靠右站的，為甚麼總有人到達平地踏出的第一步是正好讓身軀擋在整在扶手電梯闊度的中間？你到達平地後釘在原地也罷，如果你keep 住靠右我可以閃身向左邊避開你，但你卻要斜步走到中間。我多次想用手推開那些討厭鬼。

昨天我乘扶手電梯，前面的男人原本是乖乖地靠右站的，我站在他後面，到達的一刻他突然踏到中間兼稍事休息，我差點反應不來，並要急切入最左邊避開他，在這電光火石之間我就撞上了從後上來一直在左邊的女士。最可惡的前面那男人聽到後面有碰撞還回個頭好像想八卦一下，我真的很想很想罵他。不過礙於我是一個有教養的人不便在公眾場合出聲，不過想到這死佬每天不知在引起其他人多少碰撞又不甘心，真的很沒用。

用最噁心暱稱稱呼情人的好處

拍拖之前覺得情侶間互相叫BB / 豬豬很肉麻很核突。不是嗎？你是喜歡一個人，喜歡他的性格，你可不會喜歡一只豬或覺得情人的性格似豬吧﹗

拍拖後自己完全是陷入這個模式的人。(呵呵)有一段時間男朋友不喜歡大街大巷被追著叫BB，我賭氣說那我以後叫你全名吧。不久以後便分手了。我不是說那是分手的原因，不過我親身感受到叫暱稱和叫全名的心靈距離要差得遠。

現在結婚一年了，快樂的時光過得很快。除了我倆的價值觀非常相近之外，我們倆都有在家互相稱呼的噁心花名，因為太噁心所以姑且當我是XXX而他是YYY吧。最絕的地方是我們會好像芝蔴街的ELMO或噁心的扮可愛機心女地以第三人稱稱呼自己。例如我不會說我怎樣怎樣，而是"XXX今天很累哦﹗"在公眾場合只有超厚面皮的扮可愛低層次機心港女才會做的噁心事情，我們在家每天都是這樣的。

於是我們每天在家中的對話是: "YYY回到家沒有?" "XXX真是很了解YYY﹗" "XXX為YYY今天預準了甚麼菜?" 聽罷也覺得很甜及很膩吧，可是我們卻不會覺得厭。

平時叫也罷，因為太習慣了，所以想責備對方也是這樣叫的。戲玉是，叫這種暱稱是沒有可能吵架的。有一次吵得很惡我們是要轉變回用"你"和"我"去吵的。

於是表達不滿的方式會類似: "XXX不喜歡YYY這樣!" "YYY今天又忘記了替XXX拿東西吧" "XXX又這樣晚回家呢!" "為甚麼YYY不聽XXX電話啊?" 大家嘗試用大家認知範圍最噁心的暱稱代入去，我敢說世上沒有人可以這樣吵架。Yes this is a challenge. 回去和戀人試試。

還有為了配合這個暱稱，你會很自然地嗲聲嗲氣，這又增加了吵架的難度，因為面對愛人溫柔的語氣，氣也消了一半吧。

要成功應用必須是要很習慣自然地用。我忘了多久沒有叫我老公做"你"了。希望大家用得著。呵呵﹗

W 兩個世界 - 不合理的劇情

我的朋友在facebook 推介所以開始看W的。最初兩至三集很好看，我本身是很喜歡李鍾碩的，而女主也超可愛超討人喜歡。

不過很快劇情開始有太多不合理的地方，令我很難投入。還有﹗明明是穿越愛情片來的，為何後來到第9集簡直是變了恐怖片來拍的？好害怕耶﹗雖然很喜歡男女主不過真的看不下去。

跟大家分析一下最明顯劇情犯駁的地方，歡迎留言討論:

~~劇透alert~~

1. 為甚麼最開始時女主在天台救男主的劇情會在漫畫中出現，但畫家用刀插男主的劇情卻沒有？

2. 男主是透過一個窗口從漫畫世界走出到現實世界的。那個窗口就像是漫畫格的畫框。為甚麼後來上載的漫畫中會有這個方格？這個畫中畫是不合理的，因為會無限loop死，就像兩面鏡子面對面朝著。還有為甚麼男主角走到現實世界以後發生的事還會紀錄在漫畫裏？那麼漫畫和現實的邊界是哪兒？

3. 男主發現自己活在漫畫的真相後走出現實世界，試圖殺死畫家後跳河自殺。後來女主親自執筆繼續畫，救了男主。之後男主就幾集都乖乖呆在漫畫裏。但劇情沒有交代男主如何回到漫畫裏。男主在接到真兇的電話後，猜想真兇可能是跟他到現實世界，而不知如何回到漫畫世界，那麼男主是怎樣做到的？

4. 男主和真兇一樣來自漫畫世界，為何真兇可以無所不能而男主就不可以。例如真兇懂得瞬間轉移﹑由現實世界打電話到漫畫世界﹑甚至在現實世界裏說話是在空氣中寫字。難道沒有人物設定便可為所欲為？

5. 女主在由漫畫穿越到現實時穿的一定是漫畫裏穿的衣服，這是很明確的。但她由現實到漫畫時會穿甚麼卻是完全隨機/根據劇情需要而沒有邏輯可言。例如她在監獄裏告訢男主他是漫畫主角的事實後穿越回現實的家中穿的是囚衣。後來男主自殺，女主要救他在家中畫漫畫。那是兩個月之後的事，她早換去囚衣，穿越回到囚室之前穿的是平常便服，回到漫畫世界便變了囚衣。那麼女主現實家中有一套換出來的囚衣，而她穿越時又換上了囚衣。媽啊很亂呀!那她當時穿的便服憑空在宇宙消失了而囚衣卻複製了一套嗎？之後男主在忘記女主後，女主在醫院裏被召回漫畫裏的醫院，穿的仍然是紫色醫生服，那是根據甚麼邏輯？

6. 到第9集為止甚麼時候女主會被召到漫畫是完全隨機的。女主說過因為男主認為她是他人生的鎖匙，所以一直被召去。可是女主穿越很多時候是完全無關漫畫情節或男主想起/需要她。例如女主剛要被真兇的子彈打到時，她穿越到漫畫中，那時男主正趕往看消失中的女二，一點心思都沒有放在女主身上，那女主穿越完全是劇情需要她逃過子彈吧﹗

Melissa 膠鞋試穿報告



前幾年夏天大雨的時間上班不知報銷了幾多對好端端的皮鞋。你知道皮鞋全濕了之後，就算晒乾了，過一季以後便好像紙皮一樣，很醜。穿拖鞋上班如果到下班時沒有下雨又很奇怪。所以我決定買一對Melissa試試。

原本一雙當季的Melissa鞋動輒要HKD700以上一對。我想哇這個價錢我可以買一對皮鞋吧。不過幸好現在是零售業寒冬，它有推廣某些鞋款有7折，我便買了如圖那一對，應該襯到大多數的上班服。

我在店裏試不同鞋款的時候，發現它不同的鞋款穿上去的感覺截然不同，無論是鞋內籠闊度﹑鞋底厚度等都要親身試才作準。我選這款是因為它的底很厚，軟軟的穿上來很舒服。

另外之前我對膠鞋的觀感是會不會焗。Melissa很多鞋款，如我買這一雙，都是有洞洞的。下雨天比較涼所以都可以。

我買的時候因為想在下雨天穿，所以也擔心防滑問題。看到鞋底的坑紋很淺，都有點擔心。不過穿起來後發現，很厲害的，無論下多大的雨，它都絕對不會滑。就算最邪惡的地鐵站地下也可以放心大步走沒有問題。不知道是甚麼technology。

在做research的時候還發現，Melissa鞋全雙也是recycle 物料造的。而它成對都可以recycle的!很amazing!雖然是膠覺得可以穿很久，所以也沒打算會換，但也覺得好厲害，很環保。

它有一條副線叫Mel Dreamed，比主線平很多。可是當你看過實物以後，那設計款式和造工和主線根本是不同層次的。如果你是穿上班的我建議你在減價時買Melissa主線。

我有朋友介紹有個網店買Melissa鞋有折扣，她那一雙是在那兒買的--> Shopbop
筆者認為以前Melissa沒有甚麼推廣的時候在Shopbop買是抵的。不過現在Melissa做promotion的款比它還便真的話，那我寧願去實體店親身試過好一點。

迷上五月天

那天我跟同事說起，我問為甚麼那麼多人那麼迷戀五月天，還要專程飛到台灣去看演唱會，每場均一票難求?還有，香港有那麼多樂隊，為甚麼不見他們有那麼紅?我同事回答我說，嗯，那是因為沒有其他樂隊有他們唱得那麼好聽吧?我想了想，或許吧。回家便以一個人類行為學的角度去聽五月天的歌。

首先，我要confess我沒有太在聽台灣樂隊的歌，才會問出那樣弱智的問題，先讓我跟五月天的樂迷道個歉。那天後我第一支聽的五月天歌是派對動物，也不知是新還是舊。媽呀!聽那歌就好像失去了身體的自主權一樣，會不停擺動的耶!很rock 的跳舞歌可為甚麼聽著我也有想哭的衝動?很感動...

另一首是星空。媽呀! 你是在寫詩嗎? 這比我讀過的很多新詩都要精緻優美呢!

摸不到的顏色 是否叫彩虹
看不到的擁抱 是否叫做微風
一個人 想著一個人 是否就叫寂寞

命運偷走如果 只留下結果
時間偷走初衷 只留下了苦衷
你來過 然後你走後 只留下星空

還有每一首的MV都吸引到我坐在熒幕前眼定定地由頭看到尾，不時有想哭的感動。

回想那天我問同事那問題，我同事必然是經歷過風浪看慣大場面，EQ很高沒有反我白眼。阿信是全能的天作曲作詞歌手，不計其他，單是他的聲線已經比香港現今所有樂隊的主音動聽得多。不是我說的，看看五月天演唱會和Dear Jane 演唱會陣容的分別，就知道呢個世界係唔會死錯人的。我認識五月天只是太慢而已。

對，這個故事教訓了我，這個世界是唔會死錯人的。要做到受人歡迎，要成功，必要在各方面做到一等一的優秀。沒有任何marketing 可以救得了差的產品。而當你做到頂尖的質量後，市場定必以倍數回報你。這個道理不單應用在歌手樂隊身上，還有在香港努力的每一個人。君不見有些攝影師﹑化粧師可以賺取一日過萬的酬勞？那是多年來以優秀的表現賺取口碑和努力不懈的成果。在互聯網﹑facebook橫行成為人們吸收資料的主要途徑的今天，連廣告也是'Content is king'，現在youtube很多廣告我在看了3秒以後覺得還蠻有趣的沒有click 'Skip Ad'繼續看完的。

那，你的competitive edge是甚麼?

Deserve a good spouse

有人問巴菲特的多年生意拍檔Charlie Munger如何可以覓得一個好的伴侶(good spouse)，Munger說，你要deserve a good spouse。

有腦袋的人說每句話都真的與眾不同。你是怎樣的人，便會吸引怎樣的人。就是這麼簡單。

如果你是油尖旺金毛玲，不要奢望可以識到中環眼鏡西裝友。如果你是目不識丁，唔好指意會同大公司高層有好結果。如果你是爛口煙鏟，又點會識到真正的女神？Who deserves a good spouse? A good person deserves a good spouse.  

而這句話的潛台詞是:

你不必用心計去勾引，因為你可以用骯髒手段奪取的不會是寶，他日也會被其他人所勾引。

你不必去改變自己或符合大眾心目中溫柔女神形象，因為你根本不是那種人，騙不到人，騙不到自己。

Deserve a good spouse的意思就是，你不要抱著吸引異性的心態去宣傳自己。你只要努力做好自己，成為你自己心中想成為的人，那麼你喜歡自己的自信和風采自然會吸引到與你有著同樣理念和價觀的人。

其實找男朋友和投資有很多相似之處，兩者最重要的一環都是耐性和等待。因為適合你的risk appetite的機會一生人裏不多，所以必要在閒時裝備自己儲備彈藥。不適合你的男朋友或投資都可以令你後悔莫及。

而如何做好自己呢，每個人有自己的方法。有些人是在自己的工作崗位上發熱發亮，有人是運動健兒，像我便是知識型的，三天不讀書面目可憎那一種。要自己有一種能量令生活有火花，不是盲目去報甚麼興趣班或和友人high tea去填充自己的時間。

我知道孤獨的等待是很痛苦的，我知道因為我都經歷過漫長的等待。我老公在跟我拍拖之前有4年時間沒有拍拖。但急也不是解決的方法，記著，deserve a good spouse。

後話--

雖說做最自然的自己是最吸引的，不過女生和男生的心理始終十分不同，你要的浪漫和他要的是兩個世界的事。所以很多情侶都在做自以為為對方好的事但都要分手收場。要知道對方要的是甚麼和了解男生心理，不要看那些旁門左道的心理書，看這兩本很足夠了:

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
這是一本國際間火紅了十多年的兩性關係書，你讀完後再留意一下你和男朋友/老公的相處，再回頭讀多一遍，你就發現雖然它有很多generalization未必是絕對正確，(例如說男人沒有那麼細心體貼)但它教你的道理卻令你突然明白為甚麼對方會忽然發脾氣，為甚麼你為他做那麼多他卻不appreciate等等。

He's just not that into you
這是你每次曖昧時都要一讀提醒自己不要浪費心機感情想得太遠的書。女生常常在曖昧期間已經有無限暇想，或是分手後還想像可以復合(對，我以前也有傻女的日子)。每次都要一看，提醒自己真正愛你的人長甚麼樣子﹗

Lucky to be in love with my best friend...

我每日看見街上穿公主裙看迪士尼的小女孩，書局裏林林種種兩性相處攻心書籍，再對比我三十年來做人的體會，不禁感歎，有多少女孩的命運是斷送在主流傳媒對兩性相處之道的描繪上。你信<<盛女>>裏的甚麼專家或所謂的人生教練的話一成都死。


比起那些人生教練，我起碼有一個很愛我我亦很愛的老公，過著簡簡單單的生活。我想大家知道成就一段感情的真正要訣。


真人真事，兩已婚男子摸酒杯底講心事:


男子A跟老婆為某些事鬧得很僵持，大家都寸步不讓。
男子B: 你其實愛你老婆甚麼?
男子A: 當初見她條件不錯，蠻漂亮的，聰明大方得體，又有獨立經濟能力。
男子B: 其實，拍拖或結婚首要條件是對方要是你的best friend... 試想想，你要一世人幾廿年每天對著這個人，要是你們不是好朋友，不能無所不談，沒有相同的價值觀，那麼幾廿年怎捱啊?
男子A: 你說得很對。嗯.... 我以前一直沒有從這個角度想過


我聽到這裏尖叫, 唔係呀?! 咁大個人結埋婚你連揀老婆要係先做到好朋友都唔知?


原來真係好多人唔知。暈...


唔怪得之咁多家庭悲劇。


記住，愛情小說裏的浪漫情節是騙人的，情歌的哀怨纏綿也是騙人的。一見鍾情要有好結果，比中六合彩更難。記住，你跟這個人不是行行沙灘，吃吃燭光晚餐，而是幾廿年每天都見。你問你自己你們除了豬豬/ BB等情話外有沒有共同話題，會不會每晚食飯dead air。你們是不是拍拖一定要有特備節目去離島去睇戲去試新餐廳，兩人個留在家中閒談開心嗎? 不要戴著揀男朋友/ 老公的眼鏡去看異性，用看待朋友的態度去相處會更自在，如果有進一步發展的機會，事情自自然然會循它的natural course 去推進。


有很多條件很好很好的男生會犯這個錯誤，就是他們太多異性知己，沒有擦出火花，覺得自己可以找個更漂亮的，更溫柔的。我不是要他們settle for less，但是你一定要知道自己要的是甚麼，我覺得他們跟那些他們心目中的完美得吹彈可破的女生根本相處得不自在。我跟他們這樣說，他們說，"我有很多異性好友，多年知己總不能現在突然之間去追求。" 他有他的道理，人生有時候時機錯過了，便找不回來，不過可能以後還有機緣巧合可以變成情人的緣份呢，who knows?


曾經有些追過我的男生，我們稱不上是朋友，沒有共同的朋友圈子，沒有共同話題，可以說是根本是兩個世界的人。無疾而終的結果是自然不過的，真的，只是後來沒有再約出來見面，就這樣永遠也不再見了。

如果你要一個soulmate，一個跟你spiritually united 的另一半，我大力推薦你留意你的異性best friend.

身為女生, 我希望我亞媽一早有同我講既野...

1. 每天一定要搽SPF 25以上及PA++的物理防晒

2. 我不知道要從幾歲開始, 但是我很後悔沒有早早開始穿功能內衣, 而家D肉bit到周圍都係. 而家我好鍾意Satami, 穿得很舒服. 有人說Bodibra也不錯, 我沒有試過. 而其他花巧的牌子如une nana cool, bra bra blah, 甚至是Triumph, Wacoal 等等都很垃圾

3. 不知道而家仲係唔係有護X寶的promoter在小學六年級來學校派sample同講解青春期變化. 呢D野咁尷尬, 細個都求其買, 唔會特別compare notes邊隻牌子好D, 就糊里糊塗用左護舒寶好多年. 後來發現compare with 其他牌子佢其實好差, 就算’棉面’都好膠, 好易敏感. 大牌子中我鍾意用Laurier, 如果你用開護X寶一定一試愛上. 其實其他牌子也可以, 只是護X寶特別差. 如果再要求高D可以試下用全organic 的. ThreeSixty 同一D賣環保/ 自然產品的店都會有.

4. 千萬不要用粉餅 (two-way cake). 唔好偷懶一定要濕粉加碎粉. 如果真的要偷懶就用BB Cream.

5. 初學化粧者眼影只可用閃粉啡色

6. 洗頭水唔好買萬X/ 百X買到的牌子, 亦唔好去D貴的髮型屋度買, 去一D專賣頭髮護理用品的小店. 唔駛好貴, 百幾蚊一大支1litre. 最初用係冇咁順滑, 一定要落護髮素(都係係小店買), 但係用耐左出油同頭皮問題會改善. 老闆同我講係因為個D超市買到的大牌子落左矽.

7. 同樣道理, mask 都唔好求其買萬X/ 百X個D牌子. 我最愛韓國的牌子, 求其上網或者係葵涌廣場買都好用, 好value for money, 但係偏偏係萬X/ 百X買的韓國牌子就超差. 同埋佢地入貨的牌子我係韓國根本見唔到.

8. 我在大學時期花了萬多元做腋下激光脫毛, 那個數目在求學時期對我來說是天文數字, 但到現在我仍覺得是我做的其中一個最值得的投資. 拔和剃根本不是長久解決問題的方法，因為會倒生和發炎. 其他部份做唔做則適隨尊便.

9. 修眉不只是除雜毛. 眉毛是面上唯一一個你可以唔靚畫到佢靚的feature. 大部份人天生的眉型都唔靚, 建議做facial 或者去化妝counter 大修一次, 之後自己跟住個眉型修. Advance tips: 修眉除左用鉗/ 剃, 仲要用剪. 因為眉毛有長度, 有時唔拔又突左出黎, 拔又漏左個洞. 你修落就會明.

10. 返工唔好用埋D冇牌子的袋. 花幾千元買一個耐看的一點也不算貴. 耐看=款式是長青款, 牌子每年都會出的. 記住有牌子不是指agnes b 或porter, 平價的選擇kate spade 和furla 也不錯，二千幾有交易. 銀包道理也一樣. Advanced tips: 返工我一定會用皮袋, 但係皮當中羊皮買的時候好靚(miu mxx), 但係快殘得不得了, 一年後就唔用得(身為女生最少都會撞一次板). 牛皮才是耐用的王道.

11. 世間上只需要一種絲襪: 淨黑色半透肉，sexy 得來又高貴顯瘦. 其他的著唔到一季就睇到厭.而家日本同韓國的絲襪質地都好，去開可以大量入貨。

12. 我同我一位朋友不約而同為處理蚊叮做了人體實驗，發現搽無比膏會令蚊叮變得更紅更腫更痕。以前我一有蚊叮必會大量搽無比膏，令蚊叮一個星期以後也未復原，所以一有蚊叮我個人會變得很煩躁。現在不再搽無比膏我發現我對蚊叮比較能處之泰然，不再那麼介意，因為一時痕癢過後其實一日後開始已經沒有那麼痕。

13. 處理普通傷口方面，酒精﹑碘酒﹑紅/藍/黃藥水麻煩丟哂佢。醫生話傷口是黏膜，任何你不會放進眼睛裏的刺激性物體也不要放進傷口裏。你有沒有試過用酒精洗過傷口後D分泌湧出來？其實它是受了刺激。在戶外應該先用食水/水喉水沖一沖，然後到藥房買洗傷口用藥水，佢會識俾你。D藥水五顏六色我見過粉紅色﹑藍色﹑黃色都是對的。這些藥水一D都唔'LA'，不過是醫生專業用也是這一種的。然後不要動輒痴膠布，如果傷口位置常常碰撞的話，痴膠布後濕左要即刻換(最少都搣左佢)。我有一次一個超小型剃刀割傷的傷口(1mm x 1mm)，因為濕左膠布UP住，最後搞左半年都未好返，傷口發到好似手指尾指甲咁大，不停流膿，到而家個疤仲係度，要睇皮膚科專科醫生先夠得掂。其實傷口接觸空氣是止血﹑抗菌(如果你的環境是正常城市環境)﹑防止破傷風的上佳方法。

Moving in

話說我和另一位女同事都剛剛在今年結婚, 和拍了拖幾年的男友步入人生另一個階段.

那天我跟她說起, 我最初跟老公搬進新屋以後, 我立志新屋一定要很stylist 有很taste 的, 不可以像我娘家那麼多雜物. 我老公也很是同意, 他說我最討厭就是雜物了.

兩邊的母親都很雀躍地把家裏N年儲下的垃圾都搬出來要我們帶到新屋. 我心想, 這些東西在我地家裏呆坐了那麼多個年頭, 也是呆呆的坐, what is the chance that it will suddenly become something useful in our new home? 我還可以在家裏篩選一輪才帶過去. 可憐我奶奶是直接帶過來新屋了.... T_T 老公最初說, 你再看看有甚麼不順眼的可以直接丟了...

我一看, 哇不得了... 就執了一大半都是丟的. 老公又不滿意了, 一件件給我再拿出來說有用....

*facepalm* 我要逐件逐件跟他理論.. 我不喝酒的, 為甚麼要兩個開瓶器啊? 還有... 找個人告訴我這個是甚麼玩意?



真的... 如果是我孤陋寡聞麻煩找個人告訴我.... 我不知道這是甚麼是我沒有常識嗎? 這件東西不是雜物的definition 那該是甚麼?



原來是用來開樽蓋的... 失敬失敬...
我到現在還可以為它拍個照是因為我個人會pick my battles....它還在我廚櫃裏..

那是有另一件老公想留下的物件... 我不知道怎樣形容, 好像一個打不開的小膠盒子, 偷看裏面是很多針的 (如果有人知係乜麻煩告訴我...)
我拿著那件東東, 問老公, 你知唔知呢舊野用黎做乜
老公話: 唔知啊... 可能用黎整薯蓉...
我真係扯火... 唔知你又留黎做咩啊??????!??!?!!!! 我亞嫲都叫做收集雜物(AKA 垃圾)的天后, 但係佢D雜物我起碼件件都UP得出用黎做乜... 我老公年紀輕輕, 已經越級挑戰我亞嫲成功... 我真係有眼不識泰山啊................ *抓狂*

我的小伙伴說她也有exactly 一樣的experience, 她說她奶奶單是拖鞋已帶了3對給他們, 還有她老公家裏有一地庫那麼多雜物... 所以她現在是happily living in a shoebox full of crap...

致所有要和雜物搏鬥的勇士

Book excerpts

Poor.Charlie's.Almanack

What Carson said was that he couldn't tell the graduating class how to be happy, but he could tell them from personal experience how to guarantee misery. Carson's prescription for sure misery included: l. Ingesting chemicals in an effort to alter mood or perception; Envy;and Resentment

The idea of caring that someone is making money faster [than you are] is one of the deadly sins. Envy is a really stupid sin because it's the only one you could never possibly have any fun at. There's a lot of pain and no fun. Whv would you want to get on that trolley

I think that, every time you see the word EBITDA [earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation, and amortizationf, you should substitute the words "bullshit earnings. "

Be a business analyst, not a market, macroeconomic, or security analyst

Life's Tragedy is that you get old too soon and wise too late.When you are finished changing,you are finished.

Early retirement is criticized by Cicero as virtually unthinkable. He cites the moral idea of Pythagoras that "no man should quit his post but at the command of his General; that is, of God himself

aLife employed in the Pursuit of useful Knowledge, in honourable Actions and the Practice of Virtue; in which he who labours to improve himself from his Youth, will in Age reap the happiest Fruits of them; not only because these never leave a Man, nor even in the extreamest [sic] Old Age; but because a Conscience bearing Witness that our Life was well-spent, together with the Remembrance of past good Actions, yields an unspeakable Comfort to the Soul.

The best Armour of Old Age is a well spent life preceding it;

With Nancy's support, he turned to outside ventures and alternative ways to generate income.However, he never forgot the sound principles caught by his grandfather: to concentrate on the task immediately in front of him and to control spending. Charlie marries Nancy Barry Borthwick, January 27, 1956.

Talk Eleven: The Psychology of Human Misjudgement

1. Reward and Punishment - Superresponse Tendency

- Get the incentives right e.g. Federal Express to pay per shift and let all night shift employees go home when all the planes are loaded; Xerox's commission arrangement with the salesmen gave a large and perverse incentive to push the inferior machine on customers

- If you would persuade, appeal to interest and not to reason - Ben Franklin in Poor Richard's Almanack

- One employee describes Soviet communists, 'They pretend to pay us and we pretend to work.'

- Incentive caused bias: I have never seen a management consultant's report that didn't end with the same advice: 'This problem needs more management consulting services.'; Defence Dept had much truly awful experience with misbehaving contractors motivated under contracts paying on a cost-plus-a-percentage-of-cost basis.

- Granny's rule: Children must eat carrots first before eating desserts; Business version: employees must do unpleasant tasks first before doing more pleasant tasks.

- Around the time of Caesar, there was a European tribe that, when the assembly horn blew, always killed the last warrior to reach his assigned place, adn no one enjoyed fighting this tribe.

2. Liking/ Loving Tendency

- Liker tend to ignore faults of and comply with wishes of the object of this affection; to favor people, products and actions merely associated with the objection of his affection; and to distort other facts to facilitate love.

3. Disliking / Hating Tendency

- Politics is the art of marshalling hatreds

- Disliker to ignore virtues in the object of dislike; dislike people, products and actions merely associated with the object of dislike, and distort other facts to facilitate hatred.

- When the World Trade Center was destroyed, many Pakistanis immediately concluded that the Hindus did it; while many Muslims concluded that the Jews did it. - Such factual distortions often make mediation between opponents locked in hatred either difficult or impossible.

4. Doubt-Avoidance Tendency
- To quickly reach a conclusion

5. Inconsistency- Avoidance Tendency

- Reluctant to change

- Makes it much easier to prevent a habit than to change it. When Marley's miserable ghost says, 'I wear the chains I forged in life,' he is talking about chains of habit that were too light to be felt before they became too strong to be broken.

- An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure

- A quickly reached conclusion triggered by Doubt-Avoidance Tendency combined with a tendency to resist any change, will naturally cause a lot of cognitive errors.

- The radically new ideas are seldom really accepted by the old guard. Instead, said Planck, the progress is made by a new generation that comes along, less brain-blocked by its previous conclusions.

- A person making big sacrifices in the course of assuming a new identity will intensify his devotion to the new identity.

- When one is maneuvered into deliberately hurting some other person, one will tend to disapprove or even hate that person.

- A near-ultimate inconsistency would be to teach something to others that one did not believe true - with the teaching pounding the learning into the teacher. For instance, when young students are taught dubious political notions and then enthusiastically push these notions on the rest of us. The pushing seldom convinces others. But as students pound into thier mental habits what they are pushing out, the students are often permanently damaged.

6. Curiosity Tendency

7. Kantian Fairness Tendency

- Golden rule to require humans to follow those behavior patterns that, if followed by all others, would make the surrounding human system work best for everybody.

8. Envy/ Jealousy Tendency

It is not greed that drives the world, but envy. - warren buffett

9. Reciprocation Tendency

- Reciprocal hostility e.g. road-rage
- Standard antidote to one's overactive hostility is to train oneself to defer reaction.

- Joins Inconsistency-Avoidance tendency in helping cause (1) the fulfillment of promises made as part of a bargain, including loyalty promises in marriage ceremonies and (2) correct behaviour expected from persons serving as priests, shoemakers, physicians etc.

- Given the subconcious level at which much Reciprocation Tendency operates, Sam Walton wouldn't let purchasing agents accept so much as a hot dog from a vendor.

- The favor does not have to real - in a negotiation it can be a concession made from the original proposal which has been inflated, even though the other party would not have normally agreed to the final proposal if it has been presented in the first place.

10. Influence-from-mere-association Tendency

- Superstition - things happen together which does not in fact have a causal relationship

- Persian Messenger Syndrome - Ancient Persians killed some messengers whose sole fault was that they brought home bad news. It was actually safer for the messenger to run away and hide, instead of doing his job as a wise boss would have wanted it done. Antidote being to develop, through exercise of will, a habit of welcoming bad news - be wise and informed that people fear not telling you bad news because you are likely to get it elsewhere.

- Sometimes when one receives a favor, his condition is unpleasant, due to poverty, sickness, subjugation. In addition, the favor may trigger an envy-driven dislike for the person who was in a favorable state as to be a favor giver. E.g. Munger's friend 'Glotz' owned an apartment building that he had bought because he wanted, eventually, to use the land in different development. Pending this outcome, Glotz was very lenient in collecting below-market rents from tenants. When at last, there was a public hearing on Glotz's proposal to tear down the bulding, one tenant who was far behind in his rent payments was particularly angry and hostile. He came to the public hearing and said, 'This proposal is outrageous. Glotz doesn't need any more money. I know this because I was supported in college by Glotz fellowships.'

- Use of classification stereotypes

11. Simple, pain-avoiding psychological denial

- In chemical dependency, wherein morals usually break down horribly, addicted persons tend to believe that they remain in respectable condition, with respectable prospects.

12. Excessive self-regard Tendency

- Ninety percent of Swedish drivers judge themselves to be above average.

- Such misappraisals also apply to a person's major 'possessions' e.g. spouse, children and also minor possessions e.g. items once owned become worth more than he would pay if he didn't already own it ('endowment effect')

- Makes man strongly prefer people like himself - bad consequences of dysfunctional group of cliquish persons, select new members of their organization persons who are very much like themselves.

- People pick their own numbers in Mark Six - irrational love of self-picked numbers; Foolish sports betting by people who love sports and think they know a lot about relative merits of the teams, is a lot more addictive than race track betting - man's overrappraisal of his own complicated conclusions.

- Tolstoy effect: the worst criminals don't appraise themselves as all that bad, believing that (1) they didn't commit their crimes or (2) that considering the pressures and disadvantages of their lives, it is understandable and forgivable that they behaved as they did.

- To counter Tolstoy effect: Personal level - Remember (1) Fixable but unfixed bad performance is bad character and (2) Fixable bad behaviour will not be tolerated in demanding institutions; Business level - (1) A fair, meritocratic, demanding culture plus personnel handling methods that build up morale and (2) severance of the worst offenders.

- Never underestimate the man who overestimates himself.

13. Overoptimism Tendency

- 'What a man wishes, that also will he believe.' - Demosthenes, the most famous Greek orator.

- Witness happy people buying lottery tickets.

- Antidote: trained habitual use of simple probability math

14. Deprival-Superreaction Tendency

- Defined as loss of possessed reward / almost possessed reward

- A ten dollar loss hurts more than a ten dollar gain

- E.g. compulsion to gamble, open-outcry auctions (Buffett practice: Don't go to such auctions)

15. Social-Proof Tendency

- Most easily triggered with puzzlement and stress e.g. poor sales practice and cult conversion

- Serpico Syndrome: Frank Serpico joined a near-totally corrupt New York police division who was then nearly murdered by gunfire because of his resistence to go along.

- Can interract with Envy / Jealousy and Deprival-Superreaction: Munger's cousin Ross and Munger, at ages three and four, fought and howled over a single surplus shingle while surrounded by a virtual sea of surplus shingles.

16. Contrast-Misreaction Tendency

- Create high artificial price then advertise his standard price as a big reduction

- When a man's steps are consecutively taken toward disaster, with each step being very small, he will go too far before he is able to stop, because each step is too small a contrast from his previous position.

17. Stress-Influence Tendency

- Really heavy stress can cause depression. 'Acute stress depression' makes thinking dysfunctional because it causes an extreme of pessimism, often extended in length and usually accompanied by activity-stopping fatigue.

- From giving stress induced nervous breakdowns to dogs, Pavlov found:
(1) he could classify dogs so as to predict how easily a particular dog would breakdown
(2) the dogs hardest to break down were also the hardest to return to their pre-breakdown state
(3) any dog could be broken down
(4) he couldn't reverse a breakdown except by reimposing stress

18. Availability-Misweighing Tendency

- The mind overweighs what is easily available: When I'm not near the girl I love, I love the girl I'm near.

- Extra-vivid evidence, being so memorable and thus more available in cognition, should often consciously be underweighed.

19. Use-It-or-Lost-It Tendency

- A wise man should engage in practice all of his useful rarely used skills.
- If a skill is raised to fluency, it will be lose more slowly and will come back faster when refreshed

20. Drug-Misinfluence Tendency

21. Senescence-Misinfluence Tendency

Natural cognitive decay with old age

22. Authority-Misinfluence Tendency

- Be careful whom you appoint to power because a dominant authority will often be hard to remove

23. Twaddle Tendency

- Bullshit that does much damage when serious work is being attempted
- The principal job of an academic administration is to keep the people who don't matter from interfering with the work of the people that do.

24. Reason-Respecting Tendency

- Teach / give orders with reasons (even meaningless or incorrect reasons will increase compliance of requests)

25. Lollapalooza Tendency - The Tendency to get extreme consequences from confluences of psychological tendencies acting in favor of a particular outcome


Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In (Roger Fisher;William L. Ury;Bruce Patton)
It is surprising how often we simply react to what someone else has said or done. Two people will often fall into a pattern of discourse that resembles a negotiation, but really has no such purpose whatsoever. They disagree with each other over some issue, and the talk goes back and forth as though they were seeking agreement. In fact, the argument is being carried on as a ritual, or simply a pastime

Ultimately, however, conflict lies not in objective reality, but in people’s heads. Truth is simply one more argument—perhaps a good one, perhaps not—for dealing with the difference. The difference itself exists because it exists in their thinking. Fears, even if ill-founded, are real fears and need to be dealt with. Hopes, even if unrealistic, may cause a war. Facts, even if established, may do nothing to solve the problem

THE METHOD
2. Separate the People from the Problem
3. Focus on Interests, Not Positions
4. Invent Options for Mutual Gain
5. Insist on Using Objective Criteria

To find your way through the jungle of people problems, it is useful to think in terms of three basic categories: perception, emotion, and communication.


Influence (Robert B. Cialdini)
we employ the factors of reciprocation, consistency, social proof, liking, authority, and scarcity so often and so automatically in making our compliance decisions.

Where all think alike, no one thinks very much. —WALTER LIPPMANN

The man who doesnt read good books has no advantage over the manwho cant read them." -Mark Twain-

马云内部讲话 (马云)
还有一个，技能很强的人，有能力的人一般都很怪的，所以我想告诉大家绝大部分能力强的人都是偏执狂，都是古怪的。这个古怪的人不能把心胸打开的时候，永远不能成为真正伟大的领导者。

你的胸怀各种各样的人都要能够包容，最后你的技能一定不如你的手下，你的技能比手下强的时候你一定不是好的领导者。

你说你恨死下面的人，下面的人都是饭桶，我今天告诉大家，阿里巴巴给你的就是饭桶，你们的职责是把他们变得不是饭桶。三年以后他们还是饭桶，你就是饭桶！

领导者就是眼光、胸怀和实力。在全世界成功无非就是这三条。

人们总是认为错误人家会犯，我一定不会犯，我告诉你百分之九十九的错误是每个人都会犯的，只不过你没有走到这个门口，走到这个门口一定会犯的。大部分人认为自己很聪明，太聪明了，这么聪明我怎么会犯。我告诉你，你没有走到这个门口，你走到这个门口一定犯。

我看到太多公司的问题是因为汽车导致的，比方说一个公司里接他用宝马，接我只有奥迪，有的人也没想到，副总裁没有感觉，但是秘书有感觉，怎么我的老板就低一点？

很多公司的失败是由汽车导致、秘书导致、贿赂导致。

别恨人家，很多人因为讨厌这个人不愿意跟他合作，又不要你嫁给他，不要你娶她，你讨厌他没有关系，你们可以不成为很好的朋友，但是可以成为很好的同事。

我们年轻人经常说爱情变成亲情多可悲，我认为，爱情变成亲情是最珍贵的，两个毫无血缘关系的人，居然可以像亲人一样。所以我想这辈子陪你走到底的，那就是另外一半。孩子不能陪你，父母也不可能陪你，陪你的是另一半。

身体锻炼，天天去跑步没感觉的，就是觉得稍微出了一身汗。锻炼指的是，同样在生很重的病时，两个人，一个人天天在锻炼，一个人不锻炼，但是生同样的病时，锻炼的人他发挥了很大的作用。平时的锻炼就是价值观的考核，价值观不是等灾难来的时候再去练的，平时就要跑步。灾难来的时候，这个人没运动，就完了，你活下来了。

Fashionable Nonsense (Alan Sokal)
What convinces us most strongly that we found the right curve is, of course, that when we perform additional experiments, the new data fit the old curve. One has to assume implicitly that there is not a cosmic conspiracy in which the real curve is very different from the curve we have drawn, but in which all our data (old and new) happen to fall on the intersection of the two. To take a phrase from Einstein, one must imagine that the Lord is subtle, but not malicious.

Jack - Jack Welch and John A. Byrne
The psychological contract had to change. I wanted to create a new contract, making GE jobs the best in the world for people willing to compete. If they signed up, we'd give them the best training and development and an environment that provided plenty of opportunities for personal and professional growth. We'd do everything to give them the skills to have 'lifetime employability', even if we couldn't guarantee them 'lifetime employment'.

Removing people will always be the hardest decision a leader faces. Anyone who 'enjoys doing it' shouldn't be on the payroll, and neither should anyone who 'can't do it'.


'This will be a whole new ball game: Change, as you have never seen it, at speeds you've never seen. What fun for those who relish it. What fear for those who don't grasp it.'

The Intelligent Investor - Benjamin Graham
Here are some of the handicaps mutual-fund managers and other professional investors are saddled with:

- With billions of dollars under management, they must gravitate toward the biggest stocks - the only ones they can buy in the multimillion-dollar quantities they need to fill their portfolios. Thus many funds end up owning the same few overpriced giants.
- Investors tend to pour more money into funds as the market rises. The managers use that new cash to buy more of the stocks they already own, driving prices to even more dangerous heights.
- If fund investors ask for their money back when the market drops, the managers may need to sell stocks to cash them out. Just as the funds are forced to buy stocks at inflated prices in a rising market, they become forced sellers as stocks get cheap again.
- Many portfolio managers get bonuses for beating the market, so they obsessively measure their returns against benchmarks like the S&P 500 Index. If a company gets added to an index, hundreds of funds compulsively buy it. (If they don't, and that stock then does well, the managers look foolish; on the other hand, if they buy it and it does poorly, no one will blame them.)
- Increasingly, fund managers are expected to specialize. Just as in medicine the general practitioner has given way to the pediatric allergist and the geriatric otolaryngologist, fund managers must buy only "small growth" stocks, or only "mid-sized value" stocks, or nothing but "large blend" stocks. If a company gets too big, or too small, or too cheap, or an itty bit too expensive, the fund has to sell it - even if the manager loves the stock.

In the old legend the wise men finally boiled down the history of mortal affairs into the single phrase, "This too will pass."

Move fast and break things – Jonathan Taplin

What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one. Orwell feared those who would deprive us of information. Huxley feared those who would give us so much that we would be reduced to passivity and egoism. Orwell feared that the truth would be concealed from us. Huxley feared the truth would be drowned in a sea of irrelevance. Orwell feared we would become a captive culture. Huxley feared we would become a trivial culture, preoccupied with some equivalent of the feelies, the orgy porgy, and the centrifugal bumblepuppy.Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business – Neil Postman

As the phrase goes, if you are not paying for it, you are not the customer, you are the product. Perhaps Mark Zuckerberg’s greatest insight was that the human desire to be “liked” was so strong that Facebook’s users would create all the content on the site for free.

The Internet’s self-curated view from everywhere has the amazing ability to distract us in trivial pursuits, narrow our choices, and keep us safe in a balkanized suburb of our own taste. Search engines and recommendation engines constantly favor the most popular options

and constantly make our discovery more limited.

[The modern Western economist] is used to measuring the “standard of living” by the amount of annual consumption, assuming all the time that a man who consumes more is “better off” than a man who consumes less. A Buddhist economist would consider this approach excessively irrational: since consumption is merely a means to human wellbeing, the aim should be to obtain the maximum of well-being with the minimum of consumption. Small is Beautiful: Economics as if People Mattered – E. F. Schumacher

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